There is always the right time and right place to flirt. If you are doing it otherwise, then you can certainly expect that your brilliant moves would fail you. So if you have been eyeing someone whom you wish to talk with, then find the right time and place for you to do your signature “move”.
Flirting could not be done anywhere at any instance. You have to be sensitive about this. If it is not the right place, a funeral for instance, then do not do anything that would only embarrass you later on. Make sure that when you do the move, you will definitely be receiving a positive response. I suggest that when you flirt, take into consideration the following situations:
- Flirting at the workplace.
This could be a good place for you to meet a lot of people but it does not mean that you can do whatever you want. Since you are in a workplace, consider your rapport and proper behaviour as a professional. So remember that when you decide to flirt in a certain place, you also have to adjust your interaction with the girl. Talk with her in a sense that she does not get annoyed or intimidated by your presence.
- Flirting inside the library.
If you are inside the library, you are expected to be quiet because you might just be disturbing other people who are reading seriously. But if you have found someone that you are really interested with, the silence of the library would never be a hindrance. As long as you know how to deal with it appropriately, then certainly you would be able to get to her even ta the library.
You can try sitting next to her, ask her some simple questions or any other moves you can think. However, be mindful of your acts because while you consider this as your chance, she would treat this as the last time she will ever talk to you.
- Flirting at the bar.
Bars and other similar places are very loud places. These places may not be conducive for you to talk well. However, you can also do other alternative like offering her a drink or inviting her to a dance. You might as well ask for her number. In this way, you would be able to talk with her alone.
You can meet a lot of people in these places. So grab the very opportunity that you have. But then again, you always have to be mindful of your acts whether it is appropriate for the place you are in.
- Flirting while walking her home.
When you happen to see her walk home, consider this as an opportunity for you to talk with her. You can talk about a lot of things while walking her home. You can get to know her better and she could likewise get to know more about you. Show to her that you are a real gentleman. I am quite sure that she will never refuse you if ever you will ask her out.