This question could be the most insulting statement that you would ever say to a woman. If ever you are thinking of saying this to a girl, try to ask yourself first. Why are you saying this? What do you wish to imply? If you are not a girl, you would never feel how hurting it is to hear such things from a man.
True, women are most sensitive during their menstrual cycle. Well, actually, women are always sensitive. It is just that they are more susceptible to mood swings if they are within the aforementioned period. So if ever you experience arguing with a girl, never say these words to her. She might just flare up even more. Worst, you would lose her for being so insensitive about this matter. While this may sound too normal to guys, girls do make a big deal out of it. Let me tell you why.
- You are implying that she is just being too melodramatic.
In telling these words, you are just simply telling her that is only over reacting on certain things and that her actions do not really commensurate the issue at hand. It is as if you are choking her and preventing her from totally expressing her thoughts and feelings. I know, I know. It may be an exaggeration but it holds true, from a woman’s perspective. Bringing up this issue with her will not help you settle the matter with her. You are only making it worse. Trust me.
- You let her feel that her reactions really annoy you.
Perhaps, there are some points in time that you really get annoyed with a girl’s reactions to certain matters. Even if that would be the case, as much as possible, do not let her feel that she is already annoying you. Let her notice it in a different way without hurting her feelings. I know she would really appreciate it in the end if you would do it as a matter of favour.
- You are simply mocking her.
Telling her that she must have been getting her period just because she reacted that way is a great insult to her. It is as if you are really mocking her “womanhood” just like that. I am quite sure that she will never accept it and that she will flare up to let you feel that she is not amenable to what you have just said. Hence, it will only keep the argument longer and more intense. Just be sensitive. What would you feel if she uses your weakness whenever you have arguments? Would it be quite unfair?
- You really do not care how she feels.
If you try to insert this statement on your argument with her, she would take it as if you really do not care about how she feels. She would even feel more pitiful and sorry for herself and will never forgive you for telling it to her. Surely, she will never forget it even if time has already passed.